Difficult Conversations With Patients
Drawing on 38 years of experience, Dr. K. Jeffrey Miller outlines how to navigate five of the most awkward and challenging topics in clinical practice: aging, driving cessation, body weight, smoking, and psychological pain behavior. Patients often resist acknowledging the role of advancing age in their recovery, prompting the use of clever analogies—like a bathtub overflowing—to explain how a body’s capacity to heal diminishes over time. Visual proof through imaging is also recommended to turn opinions into facts.
Conversations regarding stopping driving or losing weight are particularly sensitive because they involve the loss of independence or a history of emotional struggle. Dr. Miller advises involving family members in driving discussions and having specific resources, such as dietitians, ready for weight loss patients. For smokers, he emphasizes that joint conditions heal five times slower, which can motivate change. Finally, distinguishing between actual pain behavior (unconscious) and malingering (intentional) is crucial for maintaining the doctor-patient relationship and meeting clinical standards. Being prepared with simple explanations and resources is the key to succeeding in these difficult interactions.
Conversations regarding stopping driving or losing weight are particularly sensitive because they involve the loss of independence or a history of emotional struggle. Dr. Miller advises involving family members in driving discussions and having specific resources, such as dietitians, ready for weight loss patients. For smokers, he emphasizes that joint conditions heal five times slower, which can motivate change. Finally, distinguishing between actual pain behavior (unconscious) and malingering (intentional) is crucial for maintaining the doctor-patient relationship and meeting clinical standards. Being prepared with simple explanations and resources is the key to succeeding in these difficult interactions.
